Neal M. Goldsmith, Ph.D. is a
psychotherapist specializing in
psychospiritual development and resistance
to change. Seeing “neurosis” as the natural
unfolding of human maturation, he views
psychology as the science of personal
emergence and spiritual maturity. With the
exception of biologically-based diseases,
such as schizophrenia, psychology is not
about “mental illness” and so Dr. Goldsmith
treats “neurosis” as spiritual immaturity,
not pathology. In fact, he believes the
“sick” label itself tightens and distorts,
actually slowing healthy realignment.
Dr. Goldsmith applies innovative techniques
drawn from many schools of thought and
traditional practices, such as
Psychosynthesis, Imago Relationship Therapy,
regressive psychotherapies, Rogerian
client-centered counseling, yoga psychology,
and other humanistic, transpersonal and
eastern traditions. He facilitates deep
life review, awakening to personal history,
and life planning, with a special focus on
existential and midlife crisis and with
young adults suffering from lack of
direction or substance abuse. Dr. Goldsmith
is particularly helpful with couples – many
feeling “in-love” again after years of
vicious cycles.
Dr. Goldsmith has a master’s degree in
counseling from New York University and a
Ph.D. in psychology from Claremont Graduate
University, with an orientation toward
“action science” in the tradition of Kurt
Lewin. Dr. Goldsmith conducted his
dissertation research, on the factors that
facilitate or inhibit the successful
utilization of mental health policy
research, as a federally-funded doctoral
research assistant at Princeton University.
He was also deputy principal investigator of
this four-year, nation-wide study of mental
health policy research utilization.
Author of dozens of popular and scholarly
articles, Dr. Goldsmith is a frequent
speaker on spiritual emergence, resistance
to change, transpersonal psychology, drug
policy reform and the post-modern future of
society. He has worked to improve the
innovation process and facilitate the
management of change, for companies such as
American Express, AT&T and Gartner.
Neal M.Goldsmith, Ph.D.
210 Ferry Road
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
6310725-0098
156 Fifth Avenue, Suite 534
New York, NY 10011
347-743-1110
neal@inch.com
What differentiates me from most
psychotherapists is that I don’t see
“neurotic” behavior as pathological.
Instead, I view “neurosis” as the whole
organism’s natural response to developmental
stress on the path to maturation.
I use innovative methods drawn from…
humanistic, transpersonal and eastern
traditions. I’m particularly helpful with
couples, existential and midlife crisis, and
resistance to change.
…one of the most negative influences is the
"sick" label itself, which tightens and
distorts, keeping people from a natural
unfolding and realignment. I find that
big-picture understanding, active listening
and fundamental positive regard work better.
I define "spiritual" as simply the upper end
of normal human development.
…"healing" takes place only when we… rest at
the ground of our being, the better to
naturally unfold according to our perfect,
internal template for development.
I am a psychotherapist and counselor with a
private practice in New York City and Sag
Harbor, New York. I take a psychospiritual
approach to personal development, healing
and change. In my practice, I employ
innovative methods drawn from
Psychosynthesis, Imago Relationship Therapy,
yoga psychology and other humanistic,
transpersonal and eastern traditions. I’m
particularly helpful with couples,
existential and midlife crisis, and
resistance to change.
What differentiates me from most
psychotherapists is that, over time, I have
come to see that behavior labeled “neurotic”
is not pathological at all. Instead, I view
“neurosis” as the whole organism’s natural
response to developmental stress on the path
to maturation. In my view, “neurosis” is
better seen as developmental challenge, the
surmounting of which brings maturity –
wisdom – rather than as pathology.
Neurochemical, often genetic mental illness,
such as schizophrenia, must be treated by
psychiatrists (doctors who can prescribe
medical, nowadays usually pharmacological,
treatment). I try to return psychology to
the study of the unfolding psyche in all
it’s beauty and complexity rather than
pursue the medical model.
Another way to say this is that I am rapidly
moving away from the words “patient” and
"healing." We label people "neurotic," when
in reality, it's not a medical illness they
are suffering from, but spiritual
immaturity. Psychology is the science of
spiritual maturity.
Here, I’m defining "spiritual" as simply the
upper end of normal human development. I
don't make much of a distinction between
body and mind, or mind and spirit, but look
at them as all part of the whole organism.
An example comes from when my seven year old
was learning to walk. As with all kids,
while learning, he would fall on his bottom
a lot – but I didn't label it pathological,
just normal developmental stages he was
navigating. The fact that he was falling
was actually good, as it was his effort
honing in on mastery. It was: fall, fall,
fall… walk! He didn't need healing by a
helping professional, just his natural
resources, a safe environment, and me
getting out of the way.
Another example is that of a rose bud: We
could say that it would be nicer if it were
open and begin to peel back the petals, but
of course that wouldn't work. Rather, Sun,
rain, soil and protection from trauma are
all that are required – other than that, let
it unfold. In my practice, I want to be
less like a farmer, who plants in a row and
harvests systematically, and more like a
forest ranger, who keeps a look-out for
forest fires and otherwise simply embraces
the forest sprawl.
So I don't believe that the term “neurosis”
is in any way accurate or helpful. I
believe one of the most negative influences
is the "sick" label itself, which tightens
and distorts, keeping people from a natural
unfolding and realignment. I find that
big-picture understanding, active listening
and fundamental positive regard work better.
From my perspective, "healing" takes place
only when we get underneath our modern
imago, to rest at the ground of our being,
all the better to naturally unfold according
to our perfect, inner template for
development. That process both requires –
and facilitates – the emergence of self
acceptance and will.
I look forward to working and developing
with you.
— Neal M. Goldsmith, Ph.D.
Neal M. Goldsmith, Ph.D.
210 Ferry Road
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
631-725-0098
156 Fifth Avenue, Suite 534
New York, NY 10011
347-743-1110
neal@inch.com
I am a believer in a non-dual, natural
philosophy.
This is a world view that can
accommodate shamanic states and quantum
mechanics into one truly natural
science.
I define "spiritual" as simply the upper
end of normal adult developmental
psychology.
… yoga and Buddhism are human-scale
philosophies more consistent with the
seemingly counterintuitive perspectives
of quantum mechanics and cosmology.
…"healing" takes place only when we get
underneath our modern imago to rest at
the ground of our being, so to naturally
unfold according to our perfect,
internal template for development.
…”neurosis” is better seen as a
developmental challenge – the
surmounting of which brings maturity, or
wisdom – rather than as a pathology.
… one of the most negative influences on
mental health is the "sick" concept,
which in itself tightens and distorts,
keeping people from a natural unfolding
and realignment. I find that
big-picture understanding, active
listening and fundamental positive
regard work much better.
My practice aims first at the completion
of childhood issues and then to
facilitate the further awakening and the
successful unfolding of your original
self.
It was a devil’s bargain: Thought,
ideation, intent, objectification, ego,
the finger-eye-frontal lobe complex. A
devil’s bargain, yes, but supremely
adaptive, as we now dominate nature and
occupy every corner of the globe. And
the devil’s bargain was the fruit of the
tree of knowledge of good and evil: The
first division, like light and darkness,
soul vs. body, humans vs. nature,
Christians vs. animists.
Of course, it’s an old story by now how
life started natural-yet-brutish and how
we evolved adaptations to protect us and
how now, the very traits and brain
functions that enabled us to excel thus
far, are proving counter-adaptive in the
form of pollution, extinctions, cancer,
obesity, overcrowding, competition,
mechanization and social alienation.
So how do we heal that rift? Transcend
the duality? Not by sliding back down
the spiral, as Kaczynski and bin Laden
would have it, but by powering-through
today’s modern alienation from nature,
all the way up and around the spiral to
an integral, post-modern world view,
co-existent with the animist tradition,
but full-circle and “one level up” on
the spiral. This is a world view that
can accommodate shamanic states and
quantum mechanics into one truly natural
science.
In moving forward, first you have to
know where you want to go and then you
have to have a vehicle to get there.
Many people have noticed that there is a
consistent world view that visionaries
see and report back: unitive,
transcendent, accepting, transphysical,
indescribable, infinite, whole. And the
visionaries, seers and gurus have
pointed to the many ways to consistently
get there: meditation, spontaneous
religious experience, drugs, fasting,
mortification of the flesh, other
rituals, trance, focusing incantations,
spells or directed logos, and so on.
The idea, of course, is to see the
unitary brain, get back to it, fully
experience and incorporate it, but this
time to do so with one’s eyes open,
fully conscious, Buddhist-style, for a
post modern integration of animism and
higher awareness. But how do we leave
the dualistic struggle behind and just
be one, in our lives, in nature, in the
Universe?
A
Post-Modern Approach to Reality
Every world view contains the seeds of
its own eventual dethroning,
contradictions that will be explained
only by the next, superseding world
view. Today, it is post-modernism
supplanting modernity – the dualism of
Descartes being replaced by a world view
that accommodates and integrates
opposites: of technology and art, mind
and body, man and god, matter and
energy, spirit and flesh. This is what
I refer to as a "poetry science" - not
the science of poetry, or poetry about
science, but a poetical world view that
positions modern, industrial, extractive
science in the broader, undergirding
context of cosmology, creativity,
spirituality, and community.
I am a believer in a non-dual, NATURAL
philosophy. That is, the universe is at
times counterintuitive, but never
supernatural. I also apply that idea to
viewing the mind: nothing SUPER-natural,
just holistic and Gestalt, so exhibiting
emergent properties, such as
intelligence and awareness. The same
argument can be applied to the universe
as a whole: it’s Gestalt and emergent -
what some refer to as “miraculous” – but
fully natural. So I don't believe in an
external deity - just what we have
inside us. The seemingly miraculous or
supernatural is just the nature of the
universe itself - the
whole-is-greater-than-the-sum-of-the-parts
gestalt effect in full operation. This
is a holistic, “spiritual” perspective,
but also a scientific one. For me, a
world view has to successfully pass
through both the spiritual and the
scientific sieves. This requires a
holistic approach high in perspective
and broad enough in inclusiveness to
recontextualize and embrace what we’ve
been referring to as the “spiritual,”
thus making the scientific magical and
magic only natural. In modernity, when
we think of the cosmic level of the
Universe as a whole, counterintuitive
behavior such as the Big Bang or time
dilation is now accepted as normal.
Likewise, at the sub-atomic level of
quantum mechanics, we accept
counterintuitive, "weird" behavior (such
as matter springing into existence, or
particles communicating instantly over
great distance) as the new “normal.”
Despite this wonderful insight on nature
at the extremes, at the human, Newtonian
scale we still insist that reality must
be linear, logical, predictable and
mechanistic.
Yet a post-modern science must also be
able to accommodate counterintuitive
human-scale topics such as mind,
psychosomatics, spirituality, ESP, the
psychedelic experience, spontaneous
remission, stigmata. It is in a "poetry
science" that we can see that, even at
the human scale, reality is not
Newtonian. This post-modern perspective
on the human scale might be better
explained by eastern philosophies, such
as yoga and Buddhism, human-scale
philosophies more consistent with the
seemingly counterintuitive perspectives
of quantum mechanics and cosmology.
In my clinical practice, then, I take a
world view that...
Is
relativistic, but not amoral;
Offers a rich, dualistic interplay,
but is not oppositional;
Is
transcendent in perspective, but
doesn't descend into apathy;
Views the Universe as animist, but
refuses to see this observation as
supernatural.
This perspective is crucially important,
not just for scientists, researchers,
clergy, clinicians and activists, but
for all of us trying to protect
ourselves and help the world move
forward. Moreover, this is an
inevitable perspective: as the global
information infrastructure continues to
grow, the future belongs to the unified,
transcendent whole, not to any one of
divisive, combative opponents.
Ultimately, the poetry science
perspective becomes one of truth and
freedom, versus blinders and decline –
it’s our choice – and one that is made
every day in psychotherapy.
My
Clinical Approach
I view the Universe as fundamentally
alive, with mind as an emergent property
of that complexity. I view mind and
body as two sides of the same coin, life
as a global mind and the planet as a
Gaian organism. And I view all this as
simply the normal state of nature, with
spiritual development “just” the
advanced end of the normal human
development. From this perspective,
then, "healing" takes place only when we
get underneath our modern imago to rest
at the ground of our being, so to
naturally unfold according to our
perfect, internal template for
development.
A post-modern science that can theorize
alternate universes can (and must) also
accommodate alternate phenomenologies.
How do states of mind differ from
neurotransmitters -- and how do both
differ from "spirituality"? When we
finally bind the rift between matter and
energy, brain and mind, body and spirit,
particle and wave, what will our science
be like? Our psychotherapies? Our
religion? And what can we do today to
help society into that maturation?
In other words, what does healing mean?
The very question implies the prior
question of what is it that needs to be
healed. Of course, we would welcome
healing of our psyches, our
relationships and families, our nation,
our politics and history, but how can we
heal? Medicine? Drugs? Therapy?
Spiritual practice? Compassion?
Service? Love? What perspectives and
methods have emerged over time as
consistently effective and what would
such a “perennial” medicine look like –
and what would be a reasonable action
path to a future with a healing world
view?
As a beginning, over time I have come to
view behavior generally labeled
“neurotic” as not pathological at all.
Rather, I see “neurosis” as the
organism’s natural response to
developmental stress on our varied and
unique road to maturation. From this
perspective, “neurosis” is better seen
as a developmental challenge – the
surmounting of which brings maturity, or
wisdom – rather than as a pathology. In
essence, I want to send schizophrenics
to psychiatrists (doctors who can
prescribe medical, nowadays usually
pharmacological, treatment) and want to
return psychology to the study of the
psyche, in all it’s beauty and
complexity, as it unfolds.
Another way to see this is that I am
moving away from the words “patient” and
"healing.” With the exception of
biologically-based illness, psychology
is the science of spiritual maturity.
We call someone "neurotic," when in
reality, it's not a medical illness they
are suffering from, but spiritual
immaturity.
Finally, I define "spiritual" as simply
the upper end of normal adult
developmental psychology. As such, I
don't differentiate between body and
mind, or mind and spirit, but look at
them as all part of the whole organism.
An example comes from when my seven year
old was learning to walk. As with all
kids, while learning, he used to fall a
lot, yet I didn't label it pathological,
just developmental. He didn't need
healing by a helping professional, just
his natural resources, a supportive
environment, and me getting out of the
way. Another example is a rose bud. We
could say that it would be nicer if it
were open now and begin to peel back the
petals, but of course that wouldn't
work. Rather, Sun, rain, soil and
protection from trauma are all that are
required – other than that, let it
unfold. In my practice, I want to be
less like a farmer, who plants in a row
and harvests systematically, and more
like a forest ranger, who keeps a look
out for forest fires and otherwise
simply embraces the sprawl.
So I don't believe that the neurosis
concept is in any way accurate or
helpful. In fact, one of the most
negative influences on mental health is
the "sick" concept, which in itself
tightens and distorts, keeping people
from a natural unfolding and
realignment. I find that big-picture
understanding, active listening and
fundamental positive regard work much
better.
Conclusion
We all want to forge a broader, more
parsimonious and inclusive view of
reality, one that is discriminating
among ideas, flexible to change,
reasoned in assessment and systematic in
perspective. Our ultimate goal is a
more curious, open, accepting
intentionality toward the future – and
the present moment – of our development.
I see my clients as already,
fundamentally perfect – and my practice
aims first at the completion of
childhood issues and then to facilitate
the further awakening and the successful
unfolding of your true self, the self
you were at birth; the self that’s there
in between your thoughts.
I look forward to working and developing
with you.
Neal M. Goldsmith, Ph.D.
210 Ferry Road
Sag Harbor, NY 11963
631-725-0098
156 Fifth Avenue, Suite 534
New York, NY 10011
347-743-1110
neal@inch.com